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Monthly Blog/Vlog Posts Recording reality as a Cameroonian woman, Writer, Academic, Advocate, and Believer

Monique's Musings

December 19, 2025

On Recap Culture and the importance of Having your Own KPIs

End-of-year reflections aren’t new. We’ve always done them, some of us in journals, some of us at “crossover nights on New Year’s Eve, most of us […]
October 20, 2025

Somewhere between Belief & Understanding: Lessons from wrestling with God at 36

I recently completed my 36th turn around the sun and I would like to share what has been the lesson of this age for me. Before […]
August 31, 2025

Musings on the Cost of Caring… and the need to unlearn busyness (Aug 2025)

They say it costs nothing to be kind. But it does. It costs a lot. I can’t only be kind with words. I have to be […]
July 9, 2025

Musings on Love, Faith, and the Daily Call to Choose

So here’s what I’ve been musing about lately… We often hear it said: Love is a choice. Increasingly, this message is gaining traction among my generation. […]
May 31, 2025

Because I did a THING! Booklaunch Vlog! (March 2025)

Dearest Reader, So… I did a thing. After last year, I had to face the fact that I wasn’t really writing anymore, not in the way […]
March 31, 2024

What is Life Teaching You Now?

Here is another vlog where I discuss what I’m learning in this season of life; about taking the everyday mundane as what we’re living for, planning […]
January 27, 2024

2024 My Year Of No? (Dec 2023 Blog)

It has become a tradition of mine to have a theme for the year; a word or phrase that speaks of my intention for the new […]
December 26, 2023

Oct 2023: More Birthday Reflections

It’s another October and my birthday has come to pass. I recall when I was turning 30, I wrote a blog post about how I am […]
December 26, 2023

Nov 2023: Looking Back at the Year of Self-Love

At the start of this year, I vowed to make this my year of self-love. I have struggled with self-esteem issues all my life and this […]
December 26, 2023
Sept 2023: Healing My Writing Soul
A recently unlocked memory is of the day my O’ Level GCE results were read. The year was 2006, I had convinced my mom to let […]
August 31, 2023

A Conversation with Nayah Ndefru

A few months back, I had a conversation with Nayah Ndefru on her Podcast “Breaking the Code” where she gathers her networking to discuss breaking the […]
June 30, 2023

A conversation with Fungai Machirori

Last year I shared a great deal about my mental health struggles openly via my blog and this caught the interest of a ‘Digital Native’ and […]