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Monthly Blog/Vlog Posts Recording reality as a Cameroonian woman, Writer, Academic, Advocate, and Believer

Monique's Musings

September 30, 2025

Earlier This Year, I Was Asked About Cameroon’s Politics. Here’s What I Said…

In January of this year, I was invited by Line Sidonie Talla Mafotsing to share my reflections on Cameroon’s political culture, our history of leadership, and what lies ahead as the country prepares for elections. Unfortunately, it appears that she can no longer publish the piece for which I was interviewed. Nonetheless, I remembered the conversation and how I spoke candidly about what we have normalised as a nation, the muted sense of agency many of us feel, and much more. I’ve decided to publish some of the transcript here on my blog because the interview gave me space to think more deeply about history, memory, silence, and the guardrails we must build if we want change to mean more than just a new face at the top. And as we head into the month where we'll be seeing yet another (sham) of an election. These words are all I have for now.
August 31, 2025

Musings on the Cost of Caring… and the need to unlearn busyness (Aug 2025)

They say it costs nothing to be kind. But it does. It costs a lot. I can’t only be kind with words. I have to be […]
July 9, 2025

Musings on Love, Faith, and the Daily Call to Choose

So here’s what I’ve been musing about lately… We often hear it said: Love is a choice. Increasingly, this message is gaining traction among my generation. […]
June 27, 2025

For All the Stephen’s Brothers Out There… and the Paul’s too

Hello. So, if you’re new here, this is Monique’s Musings. I blog. I’ve been blogging since… 2013? Or no, maybe 2012? Yeah, one of those. Anyway, […]
May 31, 2025

Because I did a THING! Booklaunch Vlog! (March 2025)

Dearest Reader, So… I did a thing. After last year, I had to face the fact that I wasn’t really writing anymore, not in the way […]
May 30, 2025

In Praise of Being God’s Gen-Z Baby Girl (Jan 2025)

I used to call my good friend Ettamba “God’s first-born daughter.” You know how Jesus is described as God’s only Son, and we’re all adopted as […]
May 30, 2025

Because it seems like a curse to care about your work right about now… (April 2025)

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been drawn to people who care deeply about what they do. That’s been one of my identifiers for […]
May 30, 2025

A Little Throwback Vlog (Feb 2025)

Back in 2019, while attending a conference in the U.S., an old acquaintance who hosted a Facebook show asked to interview me. He was curious about […]
May 8, 2025

Why a Black Pope Isn’t Necessarily Progress—and Why the idea Makes Me Uneasy (May 2025 Blog)

** In the past week, I’ve seen so many posts and comments from contacts eagerly awaiting the results of the ongoing Papal Conclave, hoping for a […]
August 27, 2024

A Toolbox for the Faith Journey_Aug 2024 Musings

If you’re new here. Welcome. If you’re not, welcome back. My blog is where I try to collate musings on everything that makes me think for […]
August 12, 2024

How has adulting ruined you?

July 2024 Musings In the past month, I finally got my hands on footage of an old interview I did in 2019. As I watched it, […]
June 30, 2024

Mid-year Reflections: A look back and A look forward…

Dear Readers, You’re cordially invited to do some mid-year reflection with me. This month in 2021, I was battling with suicide ideation. This same month last […]